Embracing Our Fullness: Why Being "Too Much" is Just Right
- jordindevault

- Oct 26
- 2 min read
Updated: Nov 5
Celebrating Our Authentic Selves
We’ve heard it all before:
“You’re too much.”
“You’re too loud.”
“You’re too emotional.”
“You need to calm down.”
“You’re making people uncomfortable.”
Here’s our response:
We’re not shrinking. We’re not softening. We’re not dialing it down.
We’re keeping all of it.
The Power of Being "Too Much"
Too Much? We Take Up Space
We take up space.
We ask questions.
We interrupt when it matters.
We don’t apologize for being visible.
This is not just about physical space. It’s about emotional and intellectual space too. We deserve to be heard and seen. Our voices matter, and we will not let anyone diminish that.
Too Loud? We Speak Up
We speak up.
We challenge the room.
We laugh too hard.
We say what others won’t.
Being loud is not a flaw; it’s a form of expression. It shows our passion and commitment to what we believe in. We will not be silenced or pushed into a corner.
Too Emotional? We Feel Deeply
We cry.
We rage.
We care deeply.
We feel everything.
Emotions are not weaknesses. They are powerful tools that connect us to ourselves and to others. When we embrace our emotions, we tap into a well of strength and resilience.
Redefining Power
This isn’t a flaw. It's power.
Every time someone told us to tone it down, they were asking us to be less powerful.
We’re done with that.
We’re building a space where intensity is honored, not managed.
Where emotion is a strength, not a liability.
Where “too much” is exactly enough.
If you’ve ever been told to be less, this is your reminder that you don’t have to be less. You don’t have to be quieter. You don’t have to be easier to handle.
You just have to be you, and we’ll keep making space for all of it.
The Importance of Community
Finding Your Tribe
In a world that often asks us to conform, finding a community that celebrates our fullness is essential. Surrounding ourselves with those who appreciate our intensity can be incredibly empowering. We can share our experiences, uplift each other, and create a safe space for everyone to express themselves fully.
Sharing Our Stories
Sharing our stories is a powerful way to connect. When we open up about our experiences, we not only validate our feelings but also inspire others to embrace their own. Each story adds to the tapestry of our community, reminding us that we are not alone in our journey.
Conclusion: Embrace Your Fullness
In conclusion, being "too much" is not a burden; it’s a gift. We must embrace our fullness and encourage others to do the same. Let’s create a world where everyone feels empowered to express themselves authentically.
Remember, you are enough just as you are. Your voice matters, your emotions are valid, and your presence is powerful. Let’s celebrate that together.
If you’ve ever felt pressured to tone it down, remember this: you are not alone. Embrace your intensity, and let’s create a space where everyone can shine.





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